Discovering asian beauty wisdom and Beauty of Joseon serums

My mother used to make her own skincare from rice. not quite understanding why, just that her skin looked fresh, clean. Decades later, I’ve found three serums that finally explain it.

There’s a skincare memory I keep coming back to.

My mother using rice โ€” actual rice, from the kitchen โ€” as part of her beauty routine. She would wash her face with the rice water collected every evening before cooking our meals. I was a child and I didn’t understand it then. I just noticed that her skin had a quality I couldn’t name. A luminosity. A calmness.

I’ve been thinking about that memory a lot recently, because I’ve been using the Beauty of Joseon serum range for the past few months and there’s something in them that feels like a homecoming. An acknowledgment that the ingredient my mother trusted in her kitchen was not a home remedy but a centuries- old truth that Korean skincare has been quietly building on all along.

Science is now confirming what my mother knew

For generations across East and Southeast Asia, rice water has been used as a skin tonic. Women rinsed their faces with it, soaked cotton pads in it, used it as the basis for homemade skincare. The wisdom was handed down rather than written down.

What we know now โ€” what the formulations in Beauty of Joseon make visible โ€” is that rice bran water is rich in amino acids, minerals and antioxidants that hydrate, soothe and brighten skin. The Glow Deep Serum, which I’ll come to shortly, is 68% rice bran water. Not a trace ingredient. The foundation of the entire formula.

Why I started looking at Korean skincare

Twenty-five years ago, the skincare I admired โ€” the essences and serums associated with the luminous, hydrated skin I wanted โ€” came from Japanese luxury brands. Kanebo was the benchmark. The formulations were extraordinary. The price point, for someone with a young family and a kitchen table business, was not accessible.

So I improvised with what I had. Traditional approaches. Home remedies. Instinctively, SPF on my face to avoid freckles in the sun, which I’m grateful for now.

Korean skincare has changed everything about this. In the last few years it has arrived properly on the UK market โ€” not just in specialist shops but on high streets, in pharmacies, on mainstream beauty sites โ€” bringing with it sophisticated, well-researched formulations at prices that feel almost suspiciously reasonable given what they contain.

Beauty of Joseon is where I landed. And I want to tell you honestly what I’ve found.

The three serums I rotate โ€” and why I rotate them

I don’t use all three every day. I rotate them depending on what my skin seems to need, which changes with the weather, with how much sleep I’ve had, with how demanding the week has been. The rotation is the point โ€” each serum does something slightly different, and together they cover most of what my skin in its fifties actually requires.

Glow Serum โ€” Propolis + Niacinamide

This is the one I reach for now in the mornings.

Propolis โ€” the resinous substance bees use to seal their hives โ€” has been used in Korean skincare for its antimicrobial and healing properties. Combined with niacinamide, which works to even skin tone and refine texture, this serum has become my daily baseline.

What I notice: it gives my skin a healthy, settled quality before I apply anything else. Not a glow in the obvious sense โ€” more a sense that my skin looks like it got enough sleep, even when I didn’t. It’s lightweight, it absorbs quickly, and it doesn’t pill under SPF or makeup.

I’m using this now in the mornings and it’s worth noting that niacinamide is stable in light โ€” so morning use is perfectly fine for this one. You can order it here

Glow Deep Serum โ€” Rice + Alpha Arbutin

This is the one that connects most directly to my mother’s rice water rituals โ€” and the one that has surprised me most.

It’s formulated with 68% rice bran water and 2% alpha-arbutin, targeting pigmentation and uneven skin tone. Alpha arbutin works by inhibiting melanin production โ€” which is what causes dark spots and uneven tone to develop and deepen.

I had been using The Ordinary’s version of the serum and it was great, but I was curious about the Korean version of the ingredient, coupled with rice water.

I want to be honest: I haven’t taken before and after photos. What I can tell you is that there was a sunspot on my nose that I’d had for years and had accepted, having tried various age spot serums including expensive ones from premium beauty brands.

Now, it seems to have faded significantly. I still have some stubborn ones on my forehead and a couple of age spots on the top of my cheeks that I’m working on โ€” but the overall tone of my skin looks more even than it did six months ago.

Alpha arbutin and rice extracts are genuinely quite gentle, making this serum safe for sensitive skin types. This matters to me because some brightening ingredients โ€” vitamin C at high percentages, for example โ€” can be irritating on skin that’s already dealing with the sensitivity that comes with hormonal change.

I should confess something here.

I had been using this serum in the mornings โ€” happily, without question โ€” for several months. It was only when I sat down to write this post and started researching the ingredients properly that I discovered alpha arbutin is best used in the evening, as it can be vulnerable to light and heat. (I don’t think this was mentioned in The Ordinary’s version so I assumed it would be ok with this one.

The reason I hadn’t noticed? The instructions on the packaging are in a font size that, post-cataract surgery, I simply cannot read without my reading glasses. Before my operation, being short-sighted meant I could read tiny text with no difficulty at all โ€” I was practically built for small print. Now I can see across a room perfectly, but the guidance on a skincare bottle requires a separate expedition to locate my glasses for very small print – under 8pt to be precise.

The reading glasses are now living in my skincare drawer, since most product information seems to be in a font that’s too small to read without glasses now.

There’s something rather ironic about this โ€” and perhaps something beauty brands should think about. Women over fifty are your fastest-growing skincare audience. We are also, many of us, navigating vision changes that make the small print on packaging genuinely inaccessible. Larger text on labels would not go amiss.

In any case: if you’re starting with the Glow Deep Serum, go straight to evenings. My research did the work so yours doesn’t have to.

If you’d like to read the full story of my cataract surgery and what it taught me about skincare โ€” including the waterless cleansing routine I now use every day โ€” that post is here

The texture of this serum, I should add, is silky in a way that feels genuinely different from most serums I’ve tried. It sinks in without leaving any tackiness. My skin feels soft rather than tackyโ€” which is exactly the right sensation for skin that’s been working hard all day.

Calming Serum โ€” Green Tea + Panthenol

This is my rescue serum.

I live in Britain. My skin knows it. The combination of central heating, cold wind, and the particular damp grey quality of an English winter does something to mature skin. For many years, I seemed to have skin that would bounce back from harsh cleansing or topical scrubs, in fact I loved the clean feeling it gave me, but now . Redness. Tightness. A general sense of protest.

The Calming Serum is what I reach for when that happens. Green tea is a well-established anti-inflammatory in skincare โ€” it calms redness and protects against environmental stress. Panthenol (provitamin B5) supports the skin barrier and helps it hold onto moisture.

Together they work quickly. Not dramatically โ€” this isn’t the serum version of a cold compress โ€” but within the time it takes to finish getting ready, the redness has settled and my skin feels like itself again.

These are not aggressive serums. They’re not going to produce dramatic results in a week. If you’re looking for the kind of transformation that changes your face in a fortnight, these aren’t that. What they do is work steadily, gently, and consistently โ€” which is, I’ve come to believe, exactly how skin in its fifties wants to be treated.

Not pushed. Nourished.

A note on price and where to find them

This is where Korean skincare genuinely changes the conversation. These serums are available in the UK through Lookfantastic, Cult Beauty and Amazon, typically in the ยฃ10โ€“ยฃ18 range each. For the quality of formulation โ€” the ingredient percentages, the research behind them, the results I’ve experienced โ€” that feels almost unreasonably good value.

The full circle

I started this post thinking about my mother and her rice water rituals. I’m ending it thinking about my daughters โ€” one of whom has already borrowed my Calming Serum and declared it “actually good, Mum, genuinely.”

There’s something in that continuity that I find quietly moving. The wisdom my mother handed down without explaining it, now available in beautifully packaged bottles on a UK high street, now being passed on to the next generation who will discover their own relationship with these ingredients.

Rice water. Centuries of it. Finally in a serum I can afford and my daughter will steal.

Have you tried Beauty of Joseon โ€” or any Korean skincare that’s become a non-negotiable for you? And do you have memories of traditional skincare ingredients from your own family? I’d love to hear in the comments below.

And if any of the vision or packaging observations resonated โ€” or if you’ve had your own post-surgery skincare discoveries โ€” tell me that too. These are exactly the conversations I started this blog to have.

The 25-Year Twist: How a Legendary Lipstick Anchored My Recovery

Chanel Rouge Coco Legende - previously 428, now reformulated

A lipstick I discovered at a Chanel counter in Selfridges on the morning of my wedding day. Worn to every job interview since. And the thing that got me through cataract surgery recovery when I couldn't wear anything else. This is my story of a twenty-five year love.

There is a distinct vulnerability that comes with eye surgery.

When I underwent cataract surgery earlier this year, my immediate focus was understandably on healing. But as the initial days passed and I prepared to step back into my working routine โ€” a calendar packed with in-person client meetings and many Microsoft Teams calls โ€” It struck me that there would be a month where I would not be able to wear any eye make-up while my eye was healing from the surgery.

To some, this might sound trivial. But in a professional setting, our outward presentation is deeply intertwined with our internal armour. For me, preparing for the day isn’t just about reviewing my meeting notes โ€” it is a ritual of readiness. Walking into a meeting room or opening a Teams call without a finished face felt like showing up to a presentation missing half my slides. I would lose my usual baseline of professional confidence.

The psychology of the power pout

Psychologists call this “enclothed cognition” โ€” the idea that the rituals of what we wear and apply can trigger real psychological changes in how we think, feel and perform. Cosmetics function as a kind of mental switch, signalling to our brains that it is time to lead, speak and connect. Research into what’s known as the “Lipstick Effect” consistently shows that even a single piece of makeup can meaningfully boost a person’s sense of self-esteem during challenging times.

Unable to touch my eyes, I made a decision: I would let my lips be the focal point. One powerful element, doing the heavy lifting for my entire face.

At a time such as this, there is only one lipstick that has the magic to make me feel complete – Chanel Rouge Coco in Lรฉgende

A story that begins twenty-five years ago

Wedding day Chanel make-up
Wedding day, me applying Chanel make-up

This year, my husband and I are celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. The story of this lipstick begins on that day.

Like many brides, I felt deeply uncomfortable with the idea of someone else doing my makeup on the most important morning of my life. Wanting to feel entirely like myself, I booked two bridal makeup lessons in August 2000 to design my own look.

My first stop was the department store House of Fraser, where they have a specialist make-up studio. This introduced me to a product that changed my beauty life: Kanebo’s 38ยฐC mascara, now called Sensai 38ยฐC, still as good as ever. As anyone with short, straight Asian lashes knows, mascaras are notoriously prone to smudging. The thermo-sensitive formula was absolute magic. I also left with a beautiful โ€” if rather dazzling โ€” bright pink eyeshadow.

Which immediately created a new problem. Try as I might, I couldn’t find a lipstick that balanced it. Something that worked with my skin tone without tipping into overdone.

So I went to my second lesson: the Chanel counter at Selfridges London.

I happened to get incredibly lucky. The makeup artist running my session was a man named Olivier โ€” I remembered he mentioned he had just finished the runway shows, clearly talented, and seemed genuinely interested, asking me about what hair style, the gown, if I’d picked out a colour scheme for the wedding. He understood my skin immediately. For Asian skin tones with a cool, pinkish undertone like mine, finding a pink that doesn’t wash you out is a genuine exercise in frustration. Olivier took one look at me and handed me Lรฉgende โ€” a fresh, luminous satin pink that tied everything together perfectly.

I was so spellbound that I had the biggest beauty haul of my life that afternoon. The eyeshadow, the blush, the concealer, and that lipstick.

Wedding day photo, 25 years ago, September 2001

That look became my wedding day. And Lรฉgende became mine.

The scarcity that isn’t really about lipstick

I want to tell you something about the kind of person I am.

I hate running out of things. Genuinely, deeply hate it. My house is too full โ€” I know this. I keep more than I need of almost everything, and I’ve spent a long time understanding why.

My parents were children when they fled China in the 1950s and went to live in Taiwan. They lost almost everything. My mother once told me about the journey. Her mother โ€” my grandmother โ€” would tell her to collect the grains of rice from the ground around them as they travelled, adding each one to their small store so the family could eat. I still think about what they endured to give us what we have today.

That particular fear โ€” of scarcity, of the things you rely on simply not being there anymore โ€” is the kind that gets passed down through families without anyone quite meaning to pass it on. It lives in the body before it lives in the mind.

For me, it expresses itself in making sure I always have enough. Always.

With Lรฉgende, I have a system: I reorder when I reach around one third of the tube remaining. It never failed me. I always had it.

Until about two years ago, when I went to reorder and found it simply wasn’t there. Discontinued.

For the first time in twenty-five years, I had one tube left and nowhere to get another.

I’ll admit something else: I have worn Lรฉgende to every single job interview I’ve ever had. It grounds me. It makes me feel unshakable. The idea of facing stressful professional moments without it is unsettling in a way that feels disproportionate โ€” until I understood that it wasn’t really about the lipstick at all.

What recovery taught me

Chanel Rouge Coco Legende

So during my cataract surgery recovery โ€” bare eyes, full professional calendar, one month of enforced simplicity โ€” I decided something. I was going to wear my remaining Lรฉgende properly. Every day. Not carefully, not sparingly. Fully.

Because some things are not for saving.

Every morning before a major client meeting, I twisted up Lรฉgende and applied it. And something interesting happened. My recovery month taught me that beauty is more fluid than I’d understood. Standing tall in front of peers and clients doesn’t require a full face โ€” sometimes it just requires one thing that connects you to your strongest self.

The physical act of twisting up that lipstick โ€” the weight of the black and gold casing, the specific click of it โ€” is a direct line to my wedding morning. To Olivier at the Selfridges counter. To the best day of my life. That memory might soften with time. The physical connection never does.

The ending I didn’t expect

A few weeks ago, on a quiet evening, I went looking online again. Half expecting nothing.

Chanel had rereleased Lรฉgende. Same shade. Same distinctive black and gold packaging. Exactly as it had been.

I can’t quite tell you how happy this made me. It felt disproportionate, and then I remembered โ€” it was never really about the lipstick. It was about the thing the lipstick represents. Twenty-five years of showing up. Of feeling like myself. Of never running out.

I’ve ordered two.

A note on Lรฉgende for Asian skin tones

If you’re reading this with a cool or neutral undertone โ€” and particularly if you have Asian colouring โ€” I want to be specific about why this shade works when so many pinks don’t.

Most pinks marketed as “universally flattering” lean warm, which can make cooler skin tones look sallow or washed out. Lรฉgende sits in a rare middle ground: cool enough to complement a pinkish undertone, luminous enough to add warmth without adding yellow. Olivier was right twenty-five years ago. I’ve never found anything that comes as close.

If you’ve been looking for your pink โ€” this might be it.

Chanel Rouge Coco in Lรฉgende is available now at chanel.com and at Chanel counters nationwide.


If this resonated with you โ€” a beloved product lost and found, a scent or shade that holds a memory โ€” I’d love to hear your story in the comments. These are the conversations I started this blog to have.

And if you’d like to read about my full cataract surgery skincare journey โ€” what I discovered, what changed permanently, and the products that got me through โ€” that post is here:ย [link to cataract surgery article]

Washing Hair After Cataract Surgery: The safety swimming goggles hack

Aveda Botanical Repair and swimming goggles
Aveda botanical repair and swimming goggles

Recovering from cataract surgery required a brief pause in my usual haircare routine. While the procedure itself was quick, the post-operative care required some serious thoughtโ€”especially when it came to everyday tasks like hair washing.

Having worn contact lenses for years, I was already hyper-aware that getting water into your eyes can introduce unwanted bacteria. Because it is absolutely vital to keep water, soap, and pressure completely away from the healing eye during the first week, the prospect of washing my hair felt incredibly daunting.

Today, I want to share my exact personal experience, the clever safety hacks I used to navigate this transition smoothly, and how I turned a medical restriction into a comforting, holistic self-care ritual.

Post-Op care:

Wooden comb through wet hair

My Step-by-Step Post-Op Hair Routine

If you are nervous about getting your face wet, you do not have to rush into a full wash immediately. Here is the exact, protective routine I used to stay fresh while keeping my healing eye completely dry:

Days 1โ€“3: Refresh with Dry Shampoo

For the first few days after the operation, I didn’t wash my hair with water at all. Instead, I opted for a high-quality dry shampoo. This completely removed the risk of accidental splashes during those critical early days while keeping my scalp clean and comfortable.

Day 4 Onwards: The Swimming Goggles & “Backward Tilt” hair wash

When it was finally time for a proper wash, I came up with a plan using a pair of swimming goggles I had originally purchased for a beach holiday last year.

Swimming goggles create an excellent physical seal to protect your eyes from stray drops of water or running soap. For an extra layer of safety, I placed a couple of dry cotton wool pads inside the lens area over my treated eye before putting the goggles on.

Once secured, I stepped into the shower, turned completely around so the shower head faced my back, and aimed the water stream carefully while keeping my head tilted firmly backward. This ensured that the water splashed exclusively over my forehead and down my back, draining safely away from my face.

Haircare Tip: I repeated this exact process a month later when I had my second eye operated on, and it worked perfectly both times.

Elevating the Experience with Plant-Powered Care

Once safely in the shower, I wanted to use products that offered genuine therapeutic and botanical benefits. For a very long time, I have been a fan of Avedaโ€™s Botanical Repair range. Built on ancient Ayurvedic philosophies, this collection focuses on holistic balance and uses plant-powered, bond-building technology to naturally strengthen hair without heavy, stripping chemicals.

The aroma alone transforms the bathroom into a spa. It fills the air with a calming, blend of lavender, rosemary, ylang-ylang, and marjoram.

Why I Trust This Range (Especially Post-Menopause)

This range has been my absolute go-to since navigating menopause, a time when I noticed my hair beginning to lose its original thickness, strength, and lustre.

Engineered around a plant-based, triple-layer repair technology, the formula works systematically to restore compromised hair:

  1. The Cortex: Micro-molecules derived from corn or sugarcane penetrate the inner layer of the hair shaft to build structural bonds from within.
  2. The Cuticle: A nourishing macro-green blend of sacha inchi, green tea seed, and avocado oils mimics the hair’s natural outer layer to smooth the cuticle and detangle strands beautifully without heavy silicones.
  3. The F-Layer: Coconut and corn derivatives replicate the hair’s outermost, water-resistant barrier, locking in a healthy shine and guarding against environmental damage.

I usually shampoo twice. Because the formula is highly concentrated, a very small amount goes an incredibly long way.

My can’t live without product is the Aveda Botanical Repair Leave-In Treatment. It brilliantly acts as a protective conditioner and a styling product all in one. Because it shields hair from heat damage while smoothing frizz perfectly, I find I don’t need to apply any additional styling creams or gelsโ€”keeping my haircare routine wonderfully simple.

Because you want to minimize any tangles, tugging, or pulling anywhere near your face right now, I use a wide-tooth wooden comb to gently detangle your hair, always working mindfully from the ends up to the roots.

From my motherโ€™s garden to mine

Lavender harvest
Lavender harvested from the garden

Every time I open these bottles, the herbal aroma instantly reminds me of my childhood home. Growing up, my mother cultivated both rosemary and lavender in our family garden, harvesting them regularly to brew a traditional, homemade hair rinse. She used it on our hair constantly to give it an incredible, healthy shine, but she also knew the functional secrets of those plants: their powerful, natural antibacterial and protective properties.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), these two botanical powerhouses represent a beautiful Yin and Yang balance for total scalp health:

  • Rosemary (Mi Die Xiang ็ฑณ่ฟญ้ฆ™): A warming herb known to stimulate the movement of Qi (energy) and blood circulation. In TCM, hair health is a direct reflection of blood vitality. By stimulating the scalp, rosemary delivers essential nutrients directly to the hair follicles.
  • Lavender (Xun Yi Cao ่–ฐ่กฃ่‰): A cooling, calming herb that clears heat and soothes cutaneous irritation, perfectly balancing the energetic warmth of the rosemary.

Today, I grow both rosemary and lavender in my own garden. At the end of every season, I lovingly harvest the lavender and tie them into fragrant bundles, placing them in vases all around my home. It acts as a completely natural air freshener that feels exceptionally fresh and deeply grounding all at once. In TCM, these ambient botanical scents soothe the Shen(the spirit and mind), making the entire home feel like a peaceful sanctuary during recovery.

A time for patient healing

Recovering from surgery is a gentle reminder that our bodies deserve time, patience, and protection. By pairing the practical safety of swimming goggles with the timeless, plant-powered wisdom passed down by my mother, a simple shower can transcend a medical chore and become a moment of deep healing.

If you are preparing for your own surgery, take it one slow, mindful step at a time. Put on your goggles, tilt your head back, and let nature lend you a helping hand!

Disclaimer: Always follow your specific ophthalmologist’s instructions regarding when you can safely wet your hair and face after surgery, as individual recovery timelines and protocols may vary.

Cataract Surgery & Skincare: Discovering new anti-aging products

Waterless cleansing routine with Curel makeup remover

Cataract Surgery and elevating my skincare

I wanted to share this post with you as I found that whilst there is plenty of information about what a cataract is and how to treat it in terms of surgery, I found that there was very little written about skincare, make-up for women and how to navigate skincare during the recovery process.

About the surgery – I am very short sighted and as I mentioned in my previous article I relied on multifocal contact lenses and varifocal glasses. But recently, the prescription kept changing so after some appointments with the consultant and optician, I decided to have Multifocal cataract lenses (intraocular lenses or IOLs) paying a premium and going through the surgery through health insurance instead of the NHS in the UK. The procedure would be about a month apart, fist the left eye then right.

Navigating the weeks following cataract surgery meant being careful to follow the advice, antibiotic eye drops that tapered from four times a day down to one.

Navigating hygiene, healing, skincare after Multifocal Lens Surgery

I had given a lot of thought during the lead-up to the operation in terms of how I would need to update my skincare routine. I didn’t want to take any chances during recovery, so I searched for an effective cleanser that did not need water. I found individually wrappedย Neutrogena wipes.

The surgeon said standard care was fine, but in my marketing career, Iโ€™ve learned to mitigate any risk is the key to a successful launchโ€”or in this case, a successful recovery.

In fact the recovery in terms of my sight returning was rapid, by the following morning, I could see rom the eye that I had the surgery and within a week, my sight was better than the eye (with contact lens).

It was however a challenge in terms of skincare, because I needed to maintain hygiene by ensuring no water would get into my left eye, having been told for years during my time wearing contact

lenses that tap water included water borne bacteria, I wasn’t going to take any chances until my eye had fully heald. The surgeon avoid getting water in my eye for a week, but I decided I would keep my eyes away from water for at least 2 weeks. And by the final week of my eye-drop schedule, I attempted to return to my “normal” routine.

It was January, and my skin was vulnerable, the cold air outdoors would leave my face feeling taut red and stinging, I realized that returning to my previous routine with water was making my skin taught and uncomfortable. I could start wearing make-up by week 2, but I worried about removing make-up especially any make-up around the eye.

Cleaning without water: Why I Switched to Curel during recovery

This is where my recovery journey turned into a discovery for my daily life. I realised that if my skin was this sensitive during a medical “stress test,” it deserved a more sophisticated, less aggressive approach every single day.

The Mature Skin Revelation On my return from work one evening, I made a quick stop at Boots drug store on my way home and looked for a cleanser that would be gentle and need no water. I had previously used the foaming Curel cleanser, which is very gentle but needed water. I found the brand also has a waterless product called Curel Makeup Cleansing Gel. Instead of water and rubbing, this gel uses Ceramides, which would help to repair the skin barrier while swiping away heavy sunscreen make-up and impurities. The gel is highly effective, and felt like “comforting” sigh of relief to my stressed skin.

A Bee-Powered secret: Using IUNIK propolis for Mature Eye Care

To compliment this, I focussed on the most delicate area: the eyes. I traded my old creams for IUNIK, a Korean brand featuring Propolis. This “bee powered” ingredient isn’t just for healing; it has anti-aging properties. Proplis acts as a natural antimicrobial shield while deeply hydrating to prevent fine lines, a perfect cream to use during the immediate days after surgery.

What started as a necessary skincare routine after surgery has become my go-to for aging gracefully. By treating my mature skin with the gentlest of products, “zero-rub” care required for medical recovery, Iโ€™ve found a routine that doesn’t just cleanโ€”it restores.


Nuxe nourishing dry oil for unpredictable weather

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It’s been snowing this weekend, in the middle of March! when it’s supposed to be spring. The unpredictable weather has caused all sorts of problems in my garden, the daffodils which were just starting to bloom have all died, and the cherry blossoms are looking all very sorry for the snowy blizzard conditions. Not that I’m complaining too much, the house is warm, and we are enjoying the snowday in watching films on Netflix.

The weather and central heating have made my skin blotchy with dryness. Whenever this occurs, I use a facial oil to boost the level of moisture in my skin. If you’d like to make your own facial oil, there’s an easy recipe here

Last year, for my birthday, I received

a lovely multipurpose oil from the French beauty brand Nuxe.

It boasted many uses, from adding shine and moisture to your hair,ย reducing stretch marks, alleviatingย dry flaking skin, reducing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, it truly is an amazing multi-purpose oil.

With so many uses, it means that it has reduced the number of products in my bathroom cabinet.

I use it as a light body moisturiser, a quick spritz after a shower means it locks in skin softness and prevents dry, cracked skin. It is so quick; I don’t have to wait for the oil to sink in before getting dressed because it’s a dry oil.

On my hair, I spritz it into my hairbrush after blowdrying so that it protects and adds shine to my hair and seems to make my hair between washes last longer.

On my face, I can use it by mixing it into my moisturiser and add extra oomph to combat the recent cold weather.

The ingredients in the oil all have skin benefits. There are no less than seven botanical oils, sweet almond, camellia, hazelnut, borage, macadamia and argan oils and is free of preservatives, silicone or mineral oils.

The scent of the oil is a warming fragrance like a comfort blanket, or a warm hug and reminds me of vanilla and sandalwood. It is described by the brand as orange blossom, magnolia and sweet vanilla.

Hmm, even though I love making a facial oil because this has so many uses, I think this is going to be a permanent addition to my skin care routine.

Enjoy!

Spring clean your skin with Grapefruitย 

Sunshine and spring weather has finally emerged and is making me feel it’s time to give my skin a spring clean.

I love the scent of Grapefruit and on a recent trip to the high-street, I purchased this lovely tube of refreshing Grapefruit skin sorbet from The Body Shop. The scent is uplifting and energising. Sinceย my budget did not stretch to getting any further skin treats, I decided to make my own refreshing bath soak and skin scrub in one.

This is the simplest way to get the scent of grapefruit to fill your bathroom and give skin a refreshing spring clean.

All you need is half a grapefruit. Just squeeze the juice into a bowl and mix in a large helping of rolled oats (I had porridge oats in my store cupboard), next add in a teaspoon of Green Tea leaves, since I’d received a gorgeous tin of White Peony Tea, I used this to ensure the antioxidant benefits found in Tea would make its way onto my skin.

To add moisture, I added half a teaspoon of Jojoba oil to the mix.

To boost the scent of the grapefruit, I added Bergamot essential oil. You can add any citrus-scented essential oil that you have to hand if you don’t have grapefruit.

Add the zest of the grapefruit skin by grating it with a fine grater.

By now this mix looks clumpy and can the smell of Grapefruit and the citrusyย scent has already filled my kitchen with its wonderful aroma.

You can now use it as a skin scrub or use it as a bath soak.

So that the small bits of the porridge do not float around the bath, I filled some empty tea bags. You can order these empty tea bags online or use a tea infuser.

These tea bags with fresh ingredients will keep in the fridge for a couple of days.

Just hang the tea bag under a hot running tap in the bath and the aroma of Grapefruit and all the lovely ingredients that have been used in this mix will infuse the bath water with its scent and goodness.

There’s just nothing like a good soak, except perhaps smoothing over the Grapefruit souffle body lotion to complete the experience.

If you like citrus scents read my latest post about how it helped me through myopia and menopause related Cataracts : Lemon Verbena

January detox

January detox

After what I can only describe as two weeks of indulging in lots of food and drink, my body feels bloated and my skin feels itchy from the dry heat of central heating.

White Peony Tea

I received a tin of this lovely Wheat Peony tea for my birthday last year and it has become a favourite of mine, since it it not just refreshing, but has many health benefits as it’s packed full of antioxidants.

The tea is reputed to help kick-start a sluggish metabolism, protect from free radicals and therefore promote healthy glowing skin.

If you want to try this tea, the one I’m drinking is from Whittards.

Just follow the brewing instructions on the tin. The temperature should not be boiling, but around 80 degrees Celsius, so as not to destroy any of the goodness from the tea.

Charcoal Face Mask

Since my skin is in need of some help, I’m also treating it to a deep cleanse with L’Oreal’s Pure Clay Detox Mask. Whilst it would be great to get a beauty treatment facial, my bank balance, post-Christmas is definitely needs reigning back. So whilst this is a budget buy from the high-street, I think it’s very effective and the treat is the time it takes to sit back and relax while the mask takes action.

This charcoal based face mask, has a deep cleansing action on my pores, and because it’s quick drying, you can almost feel it drawing out the impurities as it dries and has a light refreshing floral fragrance.

Orange Ginger & Cinnamon Skin Scrub

This is a lovely home-made recipe which is so easy to make, you can use brown sugar if you don’t have Dead Sea salts, follow the recipe hereย .

Lush Yuzu and Coca Shower Cream

I love the scent of oranges and this shower cream is filled with the citrusy scent of yuzu and Coca. Waking up and getting myself to work has taken a huge amount of effort last week, so this shower cream has been the perfect way to wake up to a zingy start to the day. You can find out more about the benefits of yuzu fruit here.

With this little cleansing routine, starting from inside and out, it’s the perfect way to feel energised for the new year ahead. Wishing everyone reading this post the very best for 2017!

Home Made Gentle Eye Make-up Remover

Update (May 2026): 

DIY Eye Make-up Remover

This is a quick and simple recipe for making your own gentle eye make-up remover.

Why Choose a Homemade Eye Makeup Remover?

In a world of complex ingredient lists, returning to basics is often the kindest thing we can do for our skin. Many commercial removers contain harsh alcohols or synthetic fragrances that can strip the delicate eye area. By creating your own gentle solution, you control exactly what touches your skinโ€”ensuring it remains hydrated and calm.

The 2-Ingredient Recipe (Rosewater & Oil)

The beauty of this tonic lies in its simplicity. I have found that a 50/50 split of pure rosewater and a light carrier oil (like almond or jojoba) creates a dual-phase remover that rivals any luxury brand. The rosewater soothes inflammation, while the oil effortlessly dissolves even stubborn pigments without the need for rubbing.”

All you need is some good quality oil, Rosewater and Glycerin.

Make it in small batches as the ingredients are all natural and there is no preservative so it is best to make it fresh every few days, 50ml should last between 3-4 days if you plan on using it every morning and night.

Ingredients:

20ml Rosewater

20ml Jojoba oil

10ml Vegetable Glycerin

How to make:

Pour the Rosewater, Jojoba Oil and the Glyercin in a small bottle. Shake vigorously to combine the ingredients. This recipe is very similar to the home made Micella Water recipe which I wrote about a while ago. You can see the post by clicking this link.

As you can see from the test below, I applied a very dark colour pallet of eye shadow, eye liner and mascara and used the home made version on one eye lid and compared this to the Clinique Eye Make-up remover that I occassionnally use.

Home Made Eye Make-up remover test

I was surprised as the Clinqiue remover was good, I’ve always used this as it’s non-scented and wipes away Make-up with only a couple of swipes. But the home-made version took off much more make-up with just one swipe. Result!

Better still is that it cost considerably less and smells lovely because of the Rosewater.

I’ve been using Rosewater for many years now and I don’t think there is anything better than this gorgeous smelling scented liquid.

It has been nearly a decade since I first shared this recipe, and its relevance has only grown for me. Following my recent cataract surgery, I had to be incredibly mindful of what I used around my eyes. After the initial recovery period where makeup was off-limits, returning to this gentle, 2-ingredient remover was a sensory joyโ€”it provided the cleanliness I needed without any of the irritation of synthetic brands. While I have continued to experiment with high-end products since then (which Iโ€™ll be sharing soon in a dedicated post on eye care for mature skin), this homemade classic remains my trusted baseline for sensitive days.

Refreshing herb tea foot soak

This is the easiest recipe to make at home which will revive and refresh tired aching feet. I had all the ingredients in my garden. Better still, the only cost involved was just the use of the pre-made little tea bag pouches which I got online. One hundred of these little pouches ready to fill with tea leaves, herbs or anything which you want to infuse or soak in hot water.

For this refreshing herb tea foot soak, I simply picked a small bunch of mint leaves, a few sprigs of rosemary and some lavender buds which were still flowering in the last days of summer.

A dash of Dead Sea salt, which I already had in my cupboard and a few drops of Peppermint and Lemon Essential Oils, and Orange Blossom Water all mixed roughly together in the tea bag pouch.

Soak in a bowl of boiling water for as long as you want and pour into a warm bowl of clean water. Ready to soak tired weary feet.

I know this seems like quite a bit of effort, but after a long day at work, I like the idea and ritual of preparing something a little indulgent, a little bit of me time to indulge in. The scent is uplifting and has this magical way of transforming the ย room into a scented retreat.

Feet are now soaked and feeling light and refreshed. Hmm now for that pedicure, a colourful treat for my toes.

Because everything will be coming up roses – Rosewater Facial Wash

Rosewater Facial Wash

I love the sent of roses.

Yesterday I finally got around to planting the two rose bushes purchased a couple of weeks ago. I hadn’t got round to putting them into the garden as the previous weekends had been busy and the weather had been, well pretty unfriendly.

So when I looked out of the window in the morning, there was no more excuses. I dug the soil, as it had been wet, the ground was soft and much easier to dig. With some bonemeal to sprinkle into the earth around the rose bush, I patterned down the earth around the two rose bushes.

I can hardly wait for the first rose buds to appear. The rose bushes cost just the same as a bunch of ready cut roses from the Supermarket, but hopefully, they will yield a lot more blooms throughout early summer and Autumn. I chose fragrant varieties in deep pink and white.

Rosewater Facial Cleanser

Meantime, in the bathroom, I’d run out of face wash. I prefer to wash the day’s make-up off with soapy cleanser, somehow the foaminess feels so much more refreshing than just the Rosewater toner/cleanser that I use afterwards.

Since I have a bottle of Doctor Bonner’s Castille Soap (baby wash version) waiting to find a use in my cabinet, I’m using this for the first time to make a batch of facial cleanser. As it is supposed to be non-scented, it will make a good base for a natural facial wash, though it still has the scent of Castille soap.

I’ve combined this with Rosewater along with Jojoba Oil and the scent of rose along with Jasmine makes the facial wash a floral sensation.

Here’s the ingredients:

1/4 cup Doctor Bonner’s baby non-scented Castille Soap (you can use solid or liquid)

1/4 cup Rosewater

1 teaspoon Jojoba oil, 1/2 teaspoon Rosehip Oil*

4-8 drops of your chosen blend of essential oil (I’ve chosen to use a 10% dilution of Jasmine Absolute and Rose Geranium)

Making the facial wash could not be easier, just combine all the ingredients in a bottle shake vigorously to combine and put a cap on.

I use this at night to remove make-up and afterwards use the Rosewater and Witch Hazel Toner. Just wash face until all trace of make-up has gone. It is quite watery, though if you use a muslin, simply squirt a bit on a damp muslin and rinse until clear.

That’s it, and best of all it’s all natural and can be customised to suit your skin

*I have chose Jojoba Oil and Rosehip oil as these have great anti-aging properties. You can use Coconut or Sweet Almond or any other natural oil best suited to your skin instead. Experiment until you get the right consistency you prefer